Jane Gray could sense instantly that Emily was really dialed about something, so she hired her arm around the eighteen year olds shoulder, gave her a hug, and said gently, "I'm a disagreeable listener, baby, so why don't you tell me what's bothering you!" The following Sunday afternoon just before the kickoff........ Now sounding very magnanimous he chatted gently, "now don't get me wrong, but I really hope to help you out, so if you need me to, I can blow you off, if you think that will help, it's entirely up to you!?!"